Comments on: Protecting my assets from child support?

By: northernhick

northernhick — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 02:25:59 +0000

Trusts of this sort can work. You’d definitely want to hire a lawyer to oversee the creation of the trust, to make sure that your interests are protected. The trustee would certainly be able to access such funds, but she would owe you a fiduciary duty in doing so. If it’s set up properly.

Of course, for all the expenses of creating and maintaining the trust, is it really worth it? Sure, you’d probably keep some money, but ultimately you’re doing all this at the expense of your own kid. (Assuming, of course, that it is your kid…but otherwise, the whole exercise is a waste.)
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By: Kay

Kay — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 01:58:59 +0000

Yes your chosen assets keeper would have access if it is in her name of course. Who’s ever name it is changed over to on your accounts, can do whatever they want with it. I would see about a family member for this that you can trust. You need to submit for a DNA test because the parasite of your past that you don’t even remember could be lying about all of this. Some females out there are psycho too. This way if you are not the father, then you can go back to what you were doing with your life initially.
If you are the father, God Bless and I hope you have simmered down in that department.
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By: fairly smart

fairly smart — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 01:22:59 +0000

So…10 years ago, you were spraying your essence around, & don’t remember. Now, she is a parasite, because you don’t remember all your encounters. Why don’t you wait till you find out. You may be responsible.
This is a good lesson to keep it in your pants!
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By: Smokey

Smokey — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 00:41:59 +0000

No she can not get anything if it is not in your name, however if you do end up being the father and they make you pay support and arears then they will lean your bank account as well as the lien will stay on your credit report until it is paid in full. I would ask a lawyer what are your rights since the mother kept you from your son for 10 years, can she make up for all the lost time you and your possible son could have spent together. I am a women and I am gonna say Women are bitches sometimes.
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By: JP

JP — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 00:11:59 +0000

Just take the test
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By: KDdid

KDdid — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 23:59:59 +0000

Why would you want anything but the best for your child (if it is your child)?

Perhaps if it is proven that the child is yours you should make a reasonable offer on what it costs to raise a child for 18 years (they say it costs several hundred thousand dollars for which you should be on the hook for 1/2 if you willingly donated 1/2 the DNA). Being that you’re 10 years behind it isn’t going to be cheap regardless of your assets.
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By: khia213

khia213 — Fri, 18 Sep 2009 23:27:59 +0000

Good luck with that. I hope you pick your friends better than your lovers. While you’re at it, make sure you don’t work above the table, have a bank account with your name on it, a car, a house, a tax return, or Social Security benefits cause the state can take any or all of that.

Take the test. And if the child is yours, support it.
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